This Week's Message

 

In this week's parsha Abraham buries Sarah.  To do so He buys a cave.  Why was this cave, in which to bury Sarah, so important to Abraham?  The following is from an article on Aish.com.

THE CAVE OF MACHPELAH

The Midrash says that when Abraham was ready to slaughter the calf for his guests (see Parshat Vayeira), the calf ran away. Abraham chased it all the way to the cave of Machpelah in Hebron. When Abraham entered the cave, he found there the graves of Adam and Eve. It was then that he decided he wanted this holy place for his family burial plot.

In a famous negotiation, Abraham tried to buy the Machpelah cave from Efron the Hittite. The 19th century commentator Malbim explains that although Abraham's neighbors respected him greatly, they refused to confer upon him the legal status of citizen, and the law stated that only citizens could purchase burial plots.

The Hittites offered Abraham a nice gravesite for Sarah, saying, "No one will hold back his grave from you, to bury your dead" (Genesis 23:6). Their intent was to say: "The land is ours, but we will grant you a grave in our plot."

After bowing to express appreciation for their generosity, Abraham explained that in his view, not to bury loved ones in a family plot would be equivalent to abandoning the corpse. He then provided them with a legal loophole: Don't sell me the cave, just "give it to me" (as a present), and of course I will recompense you -- "with full money shall he give it to me" (Genesis 23:9). This would avoid the legal question of selling to non-citizens.

All Abraham wanted was the cave, and he stressed that it was located at the end of the field, as not to disturb Efron's farming. Efron politely replied, "I have given you the field and the cave" - emphasizing that it was a package deal, so if you want the cave you have to buy the field as well.

At this point Abraham showed some silver coins and said, "Please take my money already" (Genesis 23:13) - i.e. in my eyes it is as if you have taken it already.

Efron's greed took hold: "My master, for the measly sum of 400 silver shekels (the average annual income was about 10 shekels), why make such a commotion between such good friends?" (Genesis 23:15 - Rashi)

Abraham paid the money in full, with absolutely no concessions or reductions; Efron even demanded totally marketable coins. Efron was the classic example of "Say much and deliver little."

At this point, the field and cave actually experienced a spiritual elevation and became the possession of Abraham and the Jewish people forever.

It is noteworthy that Hebron was bought fairly by Abraham, as was Shechem by Jacob, and Jerusalem by King David, as recorded explicitly in the Bible. It is interesting that today these are the places of greatest contention with our neighbors!

There are certain areas that are pre-ordained to hold significance in our lives.

 Sometimes it is difficult to see where are priorities should be placed.  In recent times, much of the sacred land of Israel is willing given up for a promise of peace.  This appears to be a noble action.  Yet it is selling the soul of the Jewish people when such concessions are are proposed. 

A man willing to sell his soul is not respected by ANYBODY.  The long sought-after peace is NOT one achieved through appeasement, rather through adhering to Godly principles. Israel will never live in peace until it first realizes the peace has a price-tag.  Not a price-tag of land, but a price tag of integrity, and respect.  Respect earned through doing what is right, not what is expedient.   

Shabbat Shalom,
Rick Richardson